God has a man for you, not a boy you have to mold into a man.
This idea that you need to grow with a man who has yet to first come into his own, is misguided...
Yes you can be the source of inspiration and motivation.
Yes you can be loving and supportive.
Yes you can pour into him in ways that contribute to his growth.
HOWEVER! all of this can be done while you are his FRIEND! Like actual friends, not the acting like you're his girlfriend, and giving him some booty friends.
God didn't call you to be in a relationship with a boy who has yet to become a man.
You run a lot of risks trying to be in a relationship with a man's "potential".
In most cases you will find yourself making a huge investment of time and energy, only to end up feeling cheated by the lack of return on your investment.
While you think you're building him up,
all you're really doing is making things convenient for him.
You're providing all of these benefits when he has yet to become qualified for
Not only is he not qualified at the moment, but he isn't putting in the extra work, yet you continue to give him all he could ask for.
Do you really think this will push him to higher levels, or do you see how someone can easily become content and complacent in this position?
Forget him for a second,
let's talk about you...
While you're so busy trying to "build a man", you're not pouring enough into yourself.
You're so consumed by this guy, that you have forgotten about the things God wants you to focus on in your life.
You may be a great woman,
but there is still work for you to do while becoming and continuing to be the woman God wants you to be.
It's not your responsibility to make a boy into a man, unless that boy is your own child.
You were not made to be anyone's crutch!
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