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Some men will be lessons and some men will just be a waste of your time and one man will be the man that God has for you.
I want you to know that this man does exist but you need to learn how to recognize him and how to receive him so that you can experience an amazing relationship.
Today, I’m going to reveal to you the seven clues you have found the right man God has for you. A lot of women out there are struggling to believe that a great man exists for them and you may be one of those women, but I need you to understand that you can still experience great results.
You can receive that man God has for you. You can get what you desire, but of course, we have to be mindful of the approach we're taking in life.
Most importantly, we have to be mindful of recognizing this individual because a lot of women have unfortunately picked the wrong man and have gotten involved and caught up with an individual that only created more damage, more misery, more wasted time.
So, let's get to the clues!
Clue #1: You Will be Attracted to Him
I know what you’re thinking: “Well of COURSE I need to be attracted to him!”
But there’s a reason why I need to put this on the list of clues, especially for women who are believers.
A lot of women have been led to believe that they should give men a chance they're not attracted to, plain and simple. That because he's a nice guy or he could treat you well, you should give him a chance. I’m not saying that those things should not be considered.
What I’m saying is this: God is not trying to put you in a relationship where there is no attraction. When you remove physical attraction you will see respect start to dwindle, you will see admiration start to dwindle, you will see affection start to dwindle.
The quality of the relationship suffers when there is no attraction.
His ambition, his intelligence, the way that he speaks to you, him being funny, all of these things can make him more attractive in a woman's eyes, and that's why I’m using the word attraction and not looks or physical appearance.
If you're focused only on his looks then to me, you're focused on the wrong thing!
Clue #2: You’ll Be Able to Talk to Him
I can't tell you how many women I have coached and counseled who complain about not being able to talk to their partner.
It’s never in the sense that the communication was going great and then things just took a turn for the worst. I’m talking about from day one the communication is not really there.
What happens is a lot of women for various other reasons push past that. One of the reasons is that women are so used to men not communicating that you now give a pass to every man about his lack of communication. You've now diminished the value of this quality or the importance of it because you think it is typical and common to have a man who is unwilling or unable to talk to you, but that is a huge mistake.
Yes, it is common for men to lack good communication with a woman, but I would argue that a huge reason for that is because if two people are not for each other there's going to be a lesser chance of them being able to communicate well together.
It’s not because they're not capable but the desire and the willingness to take the necessary approach and to take necessary steps to good communication, isn't there.
Let the lack of communication be a sign of the wrong man, not a typical man.
With the man God has for you, he will be able and willing to talk to you.
Clue #3: You Share the Same Values
This may be another clue that doesn’t shock you, but I’m mentioning this because I see these things play out so often in so many people that I have coached, people that DM me, message me.
Too many times people are trying to force a square peg into a round hole. Basically, they’re trying to mismatch.
You want kids he doesn't…
You believe in marriage he doesn't…
You’re spiritual, he’s not...
When you try to put two people together that are not on the same page, it may be because you do have a high level of physical attraction, maybe because he’s a nice guy, and maybe you actually do talk to him well.
Please understand that if this is the right man God has for you, you can't overlook the glaring issue of you two not being in alignment with each other.
This is the mistake so many women make and they find this man and again, for whatever reason and they latch onto him. Now is where people start to have tunnel vision and become willfully ignorant to the red flags because you don't want to be deterred from getting what you’re determined to have.
But God knows what you need. You know what you want, and what you need is going to always be better than what you want. What God has for you is always better than anything that you can imagine.
You cannot get caught up in your own perception of things and you've got to tap into your intuition, tap into your spirit, talk to God to make sure you're not being led astray by your own desires.
At the end of the day, your values have to align with one another’s. If they don’t, then it can’t be ignored or dismissed. You have to address it.
I hope you found this helpful!
Go ahead and watch it now while you have a few minutes. Don’t forget to leave me a comment letting me know which clue was your favorite!
P.S. Make sure to grab my book, The Man God Has for You so you can learn the secrets of attracting your perfect mate!