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Marriage is a life-changing decision between a couple who chooses to be in it. This moment can bring the best and worst of each other in a relationship.
Taking your relationship to the highest level is a beautiful decision to make, but have you thought it through thoroughly to know whether or not you're truly ready for it?
A lifelong commitment is not all about being madly in love with your partner. It’s about accepting one another’s strengths and weaknesses. It's about working together to build a life that you love.
You have to embrace the person you love for who they are, despite their flaws. But what if it turns out that you don't fully known the person you’re with?
What if you realized and started seeing the real him after you got married and don't like it?
What if you realized that he's changed?
Before you decide to tie the knot, here are 3 signs that tell you, "don't marry this man!":
1. He’s complacent.
Some men work so hard and never seem satisfied no matter what result they get from their actions, while some get easily content in everything they do.
Let’s focus on the latter. It’s a great thing when you just want to make life easy and simple, but there’s an exception.
Let’s say a man needs to step up in life because he’s getting older and needs to be stable for himself and his partner or even the family they want to build.
But this man doesn’t plan anything, just goes with the flow, and there are no actions on his end to prepare for the future.
He might be one of those types of men who believes in the quote “what’s meant to be yours, will be yours” and doesn’t realize that you have to work hard for this to happen.
There is a clear difference between men who are complacent with their current circumstances and those who are willing to do the hard work for the things that he wants to achieve in his life (with you in it).
2. He's bad with money.
Money isn’t everything, but handling it well can contribute to your success in life. Being a hardworking person and a person who knows how to manage his finances well always brings good fruits of labor.
If a person has no control and always spends like there’s no tomorrow, then this is just a waste of your hard earned money.
A marriage requires teamwork - and the same goes for your financial situation. You have to learn how to budget together, not separately. If a man doesn’t know how to deal with money in the early stages of the relationship, you have to consider that he may hinder your financial freedom in the future.
3. He’s selfish and inconsiderate.
If you’re starting to notice that you’re with a man who thinks about himself, then you need to reconsider the relationship.
Don’t think you can change this type of man because you can’t. Regardless of what stage you’re at in the relationship, if he has the willingness to change and if he’s genuine, you’ll start to notice that right away.
So once you start seeing this sign towards the man you’re with now, do some reevaluating. You may need to have a conversation about it to bring it to his attention. Some men genuinely don't realize what they're behavior is telling you.
If he continues, it's time to move forward. This type of behavior will only end up hurting you in the long run.
I have 6 more signs that you should be aware of before marrying the man you’re with right now, but you'll have to watch my Youtube video to find out what they are. Check this out ⇒ NEVER Marry A Man Who Has THESE 9 Habits
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