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A high quality woman deserves a high quality man and I believe YOU are that woman. Keep on reading this post because I’m going to explain to you the 7 habits high quality men are attracted to.
I need you to know that the specific thing we're talking about here is HIGH quality men.
Some of you may be familiar with the term high value man. I purposely didn’t use that because high value men, if you don't know, has a very specific definition.
It considers income, the network of people that man is in, the impact on his society, there's a lot of things that go into that.
A very small group of high quality men are more about the man being desirable and having his stuff together.
Them being rich or having financial stability doesn’t automatically provide women with a serious and consistent relationship.
His willingness to do his part in the relationship, keeping the trust that you gave him, and staying committed with marriage in mind is the end goal that a high quality man can give.
Here are more of the traits of high quality men that you need to be aware of.
1. Being Confident
The fact is that a high quality man is a desirable man, and in that desirability he is going to have other women desire him. That's just the way it works.
If you're a woman who is not confident within yourself, you are going to struggle to be with this kind of man.
You're going to have your insecurities pulled out even if he's not doing anything wrong. You may be triggered because you've been through some things in the past or simply or maybe you just have low self-esteem.
You’ll even question why he chooses you over the next woman or over a beautiful woman who shows him attention.
All of these scenarios can turn into arguments, tension, and insecurity that creates toxic energy in the relationship.
There's nothing more frustrating for a man who's doing his best, putting his best foot forward, and who is faithful being put under a microscope because of how other women act towards him.
You're making him responsible even though he's not engaging in or encouraging this behavior... we're simply talking about him getting attention because he's a desirable guy.
For you as a woman, it's important to build up your confidence so that you can be with that kind of man.
A lot of women want this kind of man, but when they get him, they don't know how to handle it and it becomes very overwhelming.
It's very important to nip that in the bud by addressing any issues that might create insecurity.
Let's go back to the topic of being confident. Understand that confidence looks good on everybody.
Confidence makes you a more desirable person because the reality is that if you don't see your value how can you expect someone else to?
Sometimes you get lucky and you may not completely see it and someone else can see it in you but it is important that you establish embracing and seeing your value for yourself first.
2. Being Attentive
Let me start this off with a personal story, I’m going to be a little transparent right now and expose myself…
I remember one time went out on a double date (or an outing if you will)... it was me, my guy friend, and two lady friends.
We go out and we end up going to this lounge, we're chilling and at this time my friend orders a hookah. If you don't know what that is it's something you can smoke I’m not going to break the whole thing down.
The point is he ordered the hookah and I do smoke it sometimes. He brings the hookah to the young lady who's next to me who I guess you know, is basically paired up with me in this situation.
She goes and she like takes the little piece that you use to smoke the hookah and she does little things to prepare it for me.
Mind you this the first time I met this woman but she was very attentive and when she did it, it caught my attention immediately (in a good way).
Because the average woman is not doing that and for a lot of men to have a woman who is actually cares enough about making sure you're good, taking care of things for you is just being attentive. In essence, it's catering.
I don't want to use the word serving but technically that's what it was, it was a level of servitude.
Of course as men, we have to serve our women as well but the point is her being attentive in that moment really caught my attention and honestly, genuinely made her more attractive.
She was already very attractive but it definitely heightened the attraction when I saw that. So, as women you have to really tap into that attentiveness.
3. Don't Be a Pushover
I am not saying that you have to be feminine, sweet, and charming all the time. I'm simply saying don't be a doormat.
You can be strong in your femininity you can still draw the line.
This kind of ties into the being selective, when you allow people to mistreat you that starts to reflect poorly on you and to damage your value.
If you've already been in a toxic relationship or are in one now, you can still restore your value.
I don't want you to think it's all over for you. You can break free and set yourself up for better. You can get yourself back where you belong and start exuding the true value that you have within.
Learning not to be a pushover is important because it will one, keep you from getting involved with the wrong relationships, and two, keep you from allowing the wrong people to linger on in your life.
But also when you are dealing with that high quality man, he wants to know you can stand up for yourself.
We want to know you have that strength because you have to tap into it when necessary.
As human beings we all have feminine and masculine energy within us.
But for the woman, it is advantageous for you to tap into your feminine energy as your dominant energy.
It doesn't mean there won't be moments where you may tap into a more masculine energy because it's needed in that moment.
But don't let it consume you, don't let it define you. Don't carry it constantly with you to where now it starts to damage you in different ways.
You can be feminine and be strong...
Draw that line and don't lower your standards and let people get away with nonsense with you... show that you're a woman of quality.
There are 4 more traits that high quality men love in women... you can check them out on my Youtube video ⇒ Quality Good Men Can't Resist Women With These 7 Habits!
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