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He may say he's not ready because he just doesn't want a relationship with you. I know that might be hard for you to hear and a hard pill for you to swallow, but I want to give you no BS here.
I don't want to give you this nice answer that makes you feel okay because that doesn't really help you in this situation - I just want to be real with you right now.
I want to address this issue because I'm constantly getting questioned about it by women. Whether I do my lives on social media, or have women emailing me, it's always “well, he's not ready for a relationship, what should I do?, how should I handle this situation?”
Let me make it really clear upfront.
When he says he is not ready for a relationship, stop dealing with him.
That's the first plain and simple answer. Let me further explain this because so many women get caught up in these situations going about it the wrong way and only causing more problems for themselves.
Here's the reality: when a man tells you he is not ready for a relationship, do not get confused by the fact that he may behave in a way that makes you feel like he has feelings for you. That can be very confusing and you can start to latch onto his actions even though his words are telling you something completely different.
We always say actions speak louder than words, but in situations like these, the actions and the words have to be consistent with each other. If they're not, there's a huge problem.
When any man can say to you he is not ready for a relationship, that is the default answer.
I don't care what he does for you.
I don't care how he treats you.
If he says he is not ready for one, do not make yourself believe otherwise because you're setting yourself up for failure.
The reality is that when he says he’s not ready for a relationship, he’s saying it because he does not see you as the one for him. And you know what? That's perfectly fine because he's not the one for you.
I'm glad at least somebody's recognizing that in this situation!
Don't internalize that, don't take it personally in the sense that there's something wrong with you. It doesn't matter how amazing and great of a woman you are, the issue is him.
Everyone is not going to see you as their potential wife or someone they want to invest their time and energy into.
I have so much more to tell you about this topic, but you’ll have to catch it in this Youtube video.
Until next time, be blessed!
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